I really need help with an issue (confusion, fairs)...?

You should know that there is no way to 'make' anyone do anything they don't want to do. I would suggest you stay away from him...although I know it is difficult for you... Trying to force him into any kind of confrontation will only make the situation worse. At best, you might send him a letter expressing your sorrow for deceiving him about your ual orientation...but, you should also tell him you were afraid if he knew that he wouldn't be your friend any more...and good friends are hard to find. If he responds to your letter great...if he doesn't respond...it's his loss. You would be wise not to bother him again... As angry as you describe him, he might become violent...and, you don't want that...