What are the do's and dont's of makeup for someone with very dark brown eyes?

I struggled experimenting with makeup as I began to enter my preteen/teenage years because my mom didn't teach me what I should wear and what I didn't need. On my own I determined my choice of color/style in makeup based on ready-made eye makeup kits that were color cordinated for a specific eye color, like the brand Almay. As an early bday present this year, my mom bought me makeup from Avon, specifically: texured teal quad, purple haze quad, fresh cut greens quad, i-mark eyeshadow in nomadic, ultra luxury eyeliners in Khaki, eggplant, and black. With all the makeup catalogues advertising new products I get confused. Are there any Avon or Mark (the teen version) representativesor customers who (like me) ave dark brown eyes (sometimes I can't see my pupil), long dark eyelashes, naturally pale rosy cheeks and lips, a fair complexion with sensitive skin who could recommend makeup to use or that you use yourself that will make the darkness in my eyes pop! I've heard that purples, blues, greens, and silvers look good on people with brown eyes. Also how do you keep eye makeup fresh/bright all day long and not crease or fade in color. Finally how do I know what makeup to wear with certain clothes and for special occions, ex: jeans/t-shirt at school vs dress and heels at a school dance? How about a smoky eye? Thanks for all your help!:)